Building Kingdom Relationships — From Singleness to Covenant
Marriage doesn’t begin at the altar. It begins with who you are becoming. Wherever you are — single, dating, discerning, engaged, married, or rebuilding — there’s a next step for you here.
Where Are You On The Journey?
Every stage has a next step. Choose where you are today and we’ll meet you there.
Single
Become Before You Choose
Identity, healing, purpose, and emotional maturity — preparing you for a healthy relationship before you ever meet your person.
Dating
Date With Discernment, Not Desperation
Move from chemistry to alignment — evaluating character, compatibility, and whether the relationship should move forward.
Discernment
Chosen or Convenient?
Determine whether love and attraction are truly supported by character, maturity, shared values, and the ability to build covenant.
Engaged
Prepare for the Marriage, Not Just the Wedding
Premarital preparation that readies your hearts, expectations, and household for covenant — long after the wedding day.
Married
The Wedding Was the Beginning
Cultivate communication, intimacy, friendship, and shared vision so your marriage keeps growing in every season.
Restoration
Restore. Reconnect. Realign.
Focused support for couples facing communication breakdown, broken trust, or disconnection — and ready to rebuild.
GOT Marriage is not just for married people.
We are building healthier people who can build healthier relationships that can become healthier covenant marriages.
The 4 Pillars Underneath Every Stage
No matter where you are on the journey, everything we teach stands on these four pillars.
Covenant
Building relationships God’s way — a sacred covenant rooted in His Word, not just a contract.
Communication
Learning how to speak, listen, and understand one another with grace and truth.
Identity
Knowing who you are individually in Christ — and who you are becoming together.
Spiritual Alignment
Keeping God at the center so every relationship moves in Kingdom unity.
Featured Event
GOT Marriage — First Friday
First Friday GOT Marriage gathering with Coach C. Restore. Reconnect. Realign. A Kingdom conversation for building marriages that last. Join us live on Clubhouse.
Lives Being Built
“GOT Marriage didn’t just teach us — it shifted our home. We pray together, lead together, and align under God’s authority.”
“Coach C’s transparency gave us permission to be honest. The teaching met us right where we were.”
“As an engaged couple, this prepared our hearts more than any pre-marital book. It’s anointed.”
Consuello Hodges
Coach C
A retired Lieutenant Colonel, Bronze Star recipient, and Iraq & Afghanistan war veteran, Coach C brings battlefield-tested leadership, strategic discipline, and spiritual insight to the GOT Marriage movement. With over 20 years counseling individuals, couples, and families, his work is grounded in professional training and lived experience.
Author of Purpose in the Pain and Survived Life’s Challenges, Coach C is the founder of Coach C’s House on Clubhouse — one of the fastest-growing married and singles ministries on the platform.
“To help people stop performing, start healing, and lead boldly in the truth of who they are.”
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